We are always delighted to hear from OM's who wish to tell us what they're up to:Old Mertonian News
It was sad but fascinating to read the obituaries in both The Times and Telegraph newspapers about Captain Michael ‘Tubby’ Crawford RN, DSO and Bar, who was born June 27 1917 and died June 28 2017, aged 100. The last surviving ‘Fighting Tenth’ Submarine Captain, his reputation as an unflappable submarine Captain in WW2 has become legendary, having survived 199 depth charges, sunk four ships and covertly landed commandos on enemy beaches…
Although slightly built, Crawford was nicknamed ‘Tubby’ because of his round face. After attending Merton Court with his older brother, he joined the Royal Navy at the age of just 13 years old, entering Britannia Royal Naval College, Dartmouth in 1931.
It was lovely to bump into Dean Farey and hear about Jake
(OM ’86-’94) and Georgia Farey
(OM ’87-’96) and how successful they have been, Jake in the music industry and Georgia in fashion.
Great news from Mitchell Fruin
(OM ’98-’07) who graduated from Cambridge with a degree in Biology - he is now embarking on a Master’s degree. His sister Gemma
(OM ’01-’10), is off to Liverpool University to study Physiotherapy .
It was excellent to hear from Blue Collard
(OM ’08-‘16) and past head boy, as he begins Year 8 at Eltham College, having had a very successful year, receiving an academic award at Speech Day and having successfully passed a trial to join the ‘Pathway to England’ training trials with Kent County hockey.
Congratulations also go to, Dillon Jayasinghe
(OM ’11-’16) who was awarded the Year 7 English prize at BETHS and also to Kirandeep Heer
(OM ’08-’16), Amrit Kallar
(OM ’08-’16), Jaipreet Ladher
(OM ’08-’16) and Beth Sankey
(OM ’13-’16) who were all awarded Year 7 prizes at Bromley High School end of year prizegiving. Great stuff! Keep it going!
Lovely to hear from some recent past pupils about their personal successes. Korede Fasina (OM '11-'15)
won form prize for his class and has settled in really well at Holmwood House, he was always a good runner and it is wonderful to see that he won the Kent League Individual Gold Medal and Team Gold Medal in Cross Country.
A fantastic well done to Robbie Smith (OM '01-'09)
for the extremely high level he is now playing at rugby. He played England Counties rugby against Ireland in Dublin. Sadly England conceded a try and lost the match on the last passage of play.
On the academic front, well done to Aman Kang (OM '02-'11),
who did really well in her GCSEs, with 8 A* and 4 As. She is now continuing her studies at Wilmington Grammar School for Girls 6th Form studying for four A levels.
We received a great email from Alex Cooley (OM '93-'02)
who along with her two older sisters attended Merton Court. Alex is working in Digital Marketing and recently picked up her swimming and netball again. Nicole (OM '90-'98)
has been living in China for approximately five years, teaching English and is currently living in Bejing; whilst Natalie (OM '91-'00)
is a Mental Health nurse at East London NHS.
News from past staff includes best wishes from Mrs Milan Jong who taught here in the 1990s and also from Mr Paul Harris who taught at Merton Court from 1995-1997. He is busy studying for an MSc in Earth Science and continuing to teach part time whilst also enjoying travelling.
It was very nice to hear from Nelson Pallister
who attended the school from 1952-1954 and lives in Orpington. He would be delighted to hear from anyone who remembers him and also we received news about Richard Rogan
and Andrew de Wolfe
who also attended Merton Court in the early 50s.
We had a fascinating letter relating to Old Mertonian William Smalley Taylor
, truly bringing this casualty of WW2 to life. We now know that William was born on 1st June 1911 in Edmonton and his father was a textile manufacturer in Sidcup. After Merton Court, William went on to Pocklington Hall School where he was a really good sportsman, actor and a prefect. In 1930 he went up to Cambridge to study Law first followed by Architecture. He left Cambridge in 1933 and married Elizabeth Margaret Taylor (nee Dalgleish) in 1940. He became a Barrister but that year he transferred from the Inns of Court Regiment (Cadets, OCTU, Sandhurst) and took up an emergency commission in the Regular Army to be a 2nd Lt. in the Queen's Bays. He was killed in action in Libya on 27th June 1942 at the age of 31. The Bays' Honeys (Light Tanks) had engaged an enemy column at Abu Batta, which was to become part of the historic Battle of El Alamein. How interesting! You can find his name on our War Memorial.
We also received a great letter from Richard Gibson OM,
who was at the school at the time of Mr Blakeney's headship. Richard remembers being evacuated from Blackfen in 1945 and two years later at the age of seventeen he enlisted in the Army for three years, serving in both Korea and Germany. In 1958 he married his wife Pat and had five children. He was a telecom engineer until he retired and then took up again a past sporting interest by becoming involved in Sittingborne and Milton swimming club where he became a Kent swimming official and also President of Medway ASA, in both 1981 and 2000.Bob Castle
contacted us too, to say that he attended Merton Court from 1946 to 1948 (when his family moved to Bristol). He was a keen and accomplished sportsman, playing rugby, cricket and athletics and went on to study PE and Geography at Loughborough College, representing the College at both tennis and squash. A successful teaching career followed at Ludlow Grammar School, Beckenham & Penge GS and Langley Park. He then became County PE Advisor in Suffolk and also became an Ofsted Inspector. He now tutors trainee teachers at Buckingham University.
And we have yet more news of recent OM's too!
Well done to Joshua Mateola
who has just left Eltham College to go up to the University of Exeter to study Economics and Politics.
Also to Tyrone Bruun
who is going to Christ Church Canterbury to read Bio Science and to Carson Dennis
who successfully graduated from Durham University.
Congratulations to Dylan Nathan
who came 3rd in the 300m National athletics competition at Bedford International Stadium, representing Dartford Grammar School for Boys and also to Saffron Cambden
(OM '06-'15) who has been offered a place at the Central School of Ballet and a place at The Young Dancers Academy in West London, so she has a tough decision to make soon� This month she also won a choreographic competition, where her solo dance will be performed in a local theatre. Her prize was a term's dance fees and a pair of signed and decorated pointe shoes from The Royal Ballet School - great stuff!
And finally�Charlie Jones (OM)
ex 'Stereo Kicks' (X Factor) member, popped in to Mr Price's office for a chat and a catch up! He has been working in LA for the past three month, with his new five piece band 'Over Atlantic'. They will be releasing an EP very soon, so watch out for him-singing and playing rhythm guitar!
A big Well done to Korede Fasina (OM ‘11-‘15)
who transferred to Holmewood House School on a scholarship last year. He was very proud to tell us the news that he has settled in really well and took part in the Townsend Warner History Competition along with a thousand other participates and is through to the second round. He also competed in the English Cross Country Association’s National Cross Country competition over 300O Metres, competing in the U13 (even though he is U12) and finished 49th of 440 finishers and his team finished 2nd out of 43 teams.
Congratulations also to Madison Clark (Merton Court Head Girl 2010), who’s done the double! Her very proud mum emailed us to say that Maddie has just been made Head Girl at Wilmington Girls’ Grammar School.
Well done to Matthew Cleary
(OM 06-15) who joined Dartford Grammar School last year. DGS held its Year 7 Rugby Festival and Matthew's House won. Matthew was named 'Player of the Tournament' (Out of 184 boys) and received his award from Mr Oakes, the Head.
We had a lovely Christmas communication from the Wake family, who emigrated to the USA in 2003 - great news that Connor Wake
(OM '97 -'03) had graduated from the University of California, Berkeley in December 2015, with a double major in computer science and Mathematics. We also had contact with the Kailey family and heard of their successes, Balrik
(OM '95-'00) is a Junior Doctor at the PRUH, Benita (OM '95-'02) works for IBM and Amrik
(OM '95-'03) works in finance for RBS.
We also heard from a number of OM's who would be interested in contacting any other OM's that remember them. Roger Penniceard started at MC in about 1944 and was a pupil here until about 1948 when his family emigrated to Australia. The only thing he remembers from his lessons was starting Latin and learning 'nominative, vocative, accusative, genitive, dative and ablative'. In Australia Latin was not on the syllabus but he said that he always remembered those six words whenever Latin is mentioned. He also remembers playing marbles in the playground and travelling to and from Orpington by bus. On his way to school one morning he was nearly killed waiting at the bus stop in Orpington with his mother when a flying bomb exploded bringing all the shop roof tiles raining down on them and shattering the shop windows. He mentioned that the father of his best friend, imported bananas, a rare commodity just after the war. He gave some to Roger and it was his first taste of a banana! He returned to England in 1965 and in later life worked as the Senior Specialist Educational Psychologist for Deaf and Language Disordered Children for Inner London Education Authority. Roger is trying to write up his early life for his grandchildren and wanted any information relating to his time at Merton Court - can you help?
We also received an email from Steve Maile, whose late brother, Richard attended Merton Court during the 50's. Sadly, Richard passed away last year. He believes that his friend John Palmer also attended the school? Steve told us that their father owned a painting and decorating business in Sidcup High Street and in Chislehurst. Richard lived his life for motor cars and motor racing and he won the Jim Russell Formula Ford driver of the year championship at Snetterton in the early 70's and subsequently raced with distinction at Brands Hatch, Mallory Park and Lydden. Steve would be very interested to hear from anyone who knew Richard.
Lastly, we heard from Stephen Hurst
(OM '54-'56) - he is also researching information for a family archive. He remembers the well documented Meteor crash in the school fields and told us that for many years he kept a small piece from the wreckage in a shoe box. Stephen can only remember one teacher called Mrs Shellan, who would occasionally give him a lift to school on the back of her motor bike - there were no crash helmets in those days! He described how she would pick him up at the bus stop on Foots Cray Lane (a five year old boy going to school, waiting at the bus stop on his own - very different from today!) He also remembered a good friend of his, Chris Garvin, who was sadly run over outside MC and broke both of his legs. He made a full recovery and Stephen and he met up again at Cambridge University many years later and became good friends.
Great to hear from Clive Osborne
(OM 52-58) who 'Googled' us remembering the Meteor plane which crashed in the corner of Merton field when he was here. It was reported in the local press and caused a great stir for the pupils at the time. He remembers past headmasters, Mr Blakeney and Mr Davies and fox hounds being brought up to the school fields for the local fox hunt, the pony club gymkhanas where he and other pupils manned the fences and the parent v school cricket matches with parents having to use bats with planed - down edges
(you can still see one of these on the bottom shelf of the sports awards trophy cabinet outside our swimming pool). He went on to 'Chis & Sid' and then onto Newcastle University reading Civil Engineering and has been working in environmental/water engineering in the UK and Far East. Fellow pupils whose names still come to mind for him are Michael Vandersluys, Jimmy Thompson, Sam Pope and Timothy Salmon.
Great also to hear from Bethany Warren
(Head Girl 2005) who set us a quick update to what she has been up to since leaving Colfe's School. She has been studying acting at Italia Conti Academy of Arts in Clapham and has had the best time, and is hoping to take her one-woman show to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival next year.
Well done to George Hawes-Gatt
(OM 96-03) who has just completed a MA in Business at the UEA and is hoping to take up a post in China in the very near future and following the completion of his Masters in International Journalism, well done to Alex Longley
(OM 96-03) who has a new job at Bloomberg.
Do any OM's have news of their GCSE, A level or Degree successes as we are always delighted to be kept updated? Jake Moore
(OM 98-07) for example did really well with A*AA in his A levels at Colfe's and has now started work in the City.
A double success for Head Boy and Head Girl (2008)! Aran Tawana
is leaving Eltham College to read Physics at Oxford and Emma Clark
is leaving Sevenoaks School and has secured a place to read Medicine at the University of Exeter. We wish them every success!
We done to Bryan Wong
(OM '03-'07), who undertook a teaching assistant placement with us.
Well done to Joe Taylor
(OM '97-'05) who had a teaching assistant placement with us last term. Ten years after leaving Merton Court, Joe thoroughly enjoyed working in J2C and was delighted that staff from his time here remembered him and he had the opportunity for a 'catch up' with them.
He commented on the wonderful learning ethos of the school and wished everyone well for the future. Good Luck, Joe!
He also emailed some great photos of his first days at Merton Court which made us smile!
Well done also to James McNulty
(OM '91-'98) who came back for his final PGCE teaching placement at the School and wrote to thank us for his very positive experience. Most of all he enjoyed seeing some familiar faces and heading back to his old classroom!
He praised the children for being smart, polite and courteous and a credit to the school. We wish him every success in his future teaching career.
It is always great to hear recent news from OM's.
Well done indeed to Nathan Rodrigues
(OM ('11-'13) in the Chislehurst and Sidcup Grammar School Annual Awards Ceremony, held last week, Nathan was awarded (for the second year running) both Sporting Scholar and Sporting Excellence Accolade, in his year group.
Outside of school he gained six gold medals in the 2015 Kent County Swimming Championships, he came third in the Kent Cross Country Competition and is now ranked in the top 10 in the UK by the Amateur Swimming Association. He has also been selected to swim for the South East in the National Swimming Championships in June.
Mrs Rodrigues was justly proud in emailing us and said, "I hope Nathan's achievements can act as motivation to current Mertonians, of what can be accomplished by hard work and taking full advantage of what the school and its staff have to offer".
Fantastic also, to hear from Nielsen Fernandes
(OM '03-'06) who emailed to say he was in his second year, studying Medicine at King's College, London.
In a very kind letter, sharing some very fond memories he said, "I will always be grateful for my time at Merton Court and will always see it as one of the greatest forces I could have ever had".
He should be very proud, as are we, of his achievements to date, and we wish him every success with his degree.
It was really great to see past Headboy Stuart Leat
(OM '92- '00) at the opening, by Aldo Zilli, of our new school kitchens. Stuart is now a qualified accountant working at Canary Wharf. He told us also that is brother, Matthew (OM '90-'98) now works for the Coast Guard and is a volunteer Lifeboatman. What an exciting job!John Locke
(OM '39-'46) contacted us to ask if we had any football team photos from that period as his family were putting together a history of his life.
We had photos pre - 1939 and from 1946 onwards, however none from that period. The reason for this may well have been the disruption caused by the Second World War. Some of the school was evacuated to Combe Martin in Devon, others were evacuated to Butleigh in Somerset. Some stayed in London.
He also remembered playing football with OMs Bev Woollard and Michael Hollingsworth (whose team photos are on our OM website section), who remained local to the Sidcup area.
Finally, we had a most interesting email from Arthur Hayes who is researching the early days of the design and construction of the BBC Television Centre at White City in London.Graham Richards Dawbarn
(OM 1899-1907) was selected and commissioned by the BBC in 1949 to be the Architect for the BBC TV Centre project until it official opening in June 1960.
Arthur is planning on writing a biography of Graham Dawbarn, explaining his important influence on design in that period.
Graham was one of the first pupils to attend Merton Court and left on a scholarship to King's School, Canterbury. In fact, both Graham Dawbarn and his brother A L Dawbarn
(OM 1899-1905) are on Sports Day programmes we still have in our school archive (Graham won the egg and spoon race!) and both of them served in, and survived, the First World War.
You can in fact see A L Dawbarn's name on our very first Honours Board, in the front entrance hall to the school.
It was wonderful to see Derek Rossitter, who during his visit found his brother's name on our 1932 scholar's board. Derek is 92 years of age lives in Wimbledon and is a children's author. Books he has published include 'The Greedy Pigeon and the Hungry Porcupine and Friends'. He decided to come back to see how his old school was and was delighted how the place had remained the same yet improved in so many ways.
Denise Yardley (Past joint chair of FOMC) emailed us to reminisce of 'happy days at Merton Court' messaging 'very proud of our Mertonians', as indeed we are! Megan Yardley(OM 94-03)
, after gaining her degree in Politics, now lives in Bristol and works as a print consultant and Joe Yardley(OM 96-05)
is a ski instructor in France. She also told us the good news that Michael Diggins(OM 94-03)
works in advertising after gaining his degree in English Classics and Josh Diggins(OM 96-05)
has just qualified as an electrician after three years of very hard work.
We also heard from Joshua Symonds(OM 95-04)
who achieved a 2:1 in Business and Finance from the University of Lincoln. His sister, Isabelle(OM 98-07)
has gone to Nottingham Trent University to study Fashion, Promotion and Communication.Tom Angell(OM 04-09)
who was always a keen rugby player contacted us last month. Tom and his family left to live in the Far East and he emailed to tell us that he had just played for the Hong Kong National Rugby Team, winning 31-10.
Well done to( Ellie-May Duhig (OM '04-'12)
who is Goal Attack for the U14 Kent Netball Team. Also to (James Garvey (OM '11-13)
and Daniel Mitchell (OM '05-'13) who have got into the Kent U14 Rugby Team.
Great news from the Jenkins boys - George (OM '96-'04)
has graduated with a first in classics from Cambridge and is returning to take a Masters and Harry (OM '99-'07)
is going up to Durham University to Study Biological Sciences.
A big well done to Charlie Jones (OM '08-'11)
who appeared on the X Factor, got through the first auditions and is off to Boot Camp!Alex Longley (OM '95-'03)
graduated with a First Class Honours degree in French and Politics from Bristol University and is now studying for a Masters in International Journalism.
It was lovely to see George Charalambous (OM '98-'06)
who is studying Dentistry at Plymouth University and Christine Hayman
(OM '94-'03) who is studying a PGCE at Kings College, London for Secondary School Maths teaching when they came for the opening of our Elizabeth Price Building.
Congratulations, also, to Mitchell Fruin (OM '98-'07)
who has gained a place this year at Oxford University.
Congratulations to Luke Lewis
(OM '85-'94) and his wife, Jenny, who are now the proud parents of a boy - Logan Beau Lewis - born on 25/03/14. Parents and baby are all doing well.
Well done, also to Charlotte Cooper
(OM '06-'12) who has been picked for the Kent U14 netball team.
Fabulous to hear from both OM's and past members of staff over the Christmas holidays! Thomas Copp (OM 'O5-'13)
has been selected for the Kent cricket winter under 12 training squad and Rohan Sharma (OM' 02-'11)
in the under 14's. Congratulations to them both. Great to hear from Michael Cato (OM '98-'05)
who went on to Wilmington Grammar School from Merton Court. He has just begun working in Victoria as a business analyst for John Lewis Partnership having completed his Diploma in IT Programming.
Wonderful news from Charlie Jones (OM '08-'11)
who has recorded his first record and video on 'Youtube' and has 5000 hits already. He has been releasing more videos over the past few weeks and his debut single is out in February. If you would like to check out his songs please go to: http:www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmIUd3CW8Jw&sns=em
www.charliejonesofficial.com or follow him on twitter @charliejsongs. Anna Quiros, n-e Connolly, (OM '94-'98)
contacted us to say she was going to pop in and see us on our next Open Day. After attending Merton Court (where her love of drama was nurtured, she says) then Townley Grammar, she went on to study English and Drama at University. She trained as a teacher and is now Head of Drama at a Grammar School in Kent.
We received a wonderful email from David Leppard (OM '42-'51).
He is a retired RAF Air Commodore and currently writing a biography. As part of his research he came across our website.
During his prep school years he lived at The Station Hotel, Sidcup: the hotel was demolished many years ago. The headmaster in his day was Mr Blakeney, and he shared his responsibilities with Mr Davies. He well remembers the war years, although he says he was far more interested in collecting shrapnel than paying attention in class! One war story that he thought may be of interest was when he used to catch the 241 bus to school from Sidcup station to the end of Knoll Road. One day he nearly missed the bus, but it stopped a second time about twenty yards beyond the bus stop to permit an elderly lady to descend. This allowed him to board. As he was getting off the bus at Knoll Road he glimpsed something above and behind falling rapidly from the sky. A V2 rocket landed on the following 241 bus in Sidcup High Street, opposite the Black Horse pub. "God looks after sinners" he comments....
After Merton Court he attended St Edmund's School, Canterbury until 1957 when he joined the RAF. He completed the three year course at the RAF College, Cranwell and then went on to fly several different types of aircraft and served in Gibraltar, Northern Ireland, USA (on exchange with the US Navy), Aden, several countries in Africa, Madagascar, Malta, Singapore, Borneo, Hong Kong, and Belgium. He also completed three tours of duty in the Ministry of Defence. He was the station commander at RAF Gatow in Berlin, before 'the wall' came down, and finished his time at RAF Scampton, where he was Commandant, The Central Flying School. There, in addition to training flying instructors, he commanded the RAF aerobatic team, 'The Red Arrows', with whom he flew regularly.
He left the RAF in 1989, but was head hunted to command The Royal Flight of Oman, responsible for flying the Omani Head of State, Sultan Qaboos, his family, and government ministers all over the world. He finally retired in 1992 and has lived in Penshurst, Kent ever since. He has fond memories of Merton Court and would love to hear from any OM that remembers him.Nicola McIlroy (n-e Hodgson)
who taught here in S1/S2 (1995-98) found our website whilst researching the postcode for an application for a new job. She said it brought back so many lovely memories that she decided to try and get in touch. She was delighted to see that Mr Christy and Mr Brightwell were still teaching in school and noted how much the school had developed over the years. She is living in Devon and has three children of her own (along with three dogs). She always was a keen competition sailor taking part at National level and still loves her sailing!
Great to hear from Chris Bashford
(OM) who left Merton Court in 1951. Chris has been living in Bedfordshire for the last 40 or so years and writes, "I still rate MC as giving me the best grounding in life and knowledge anyone could wish". If you would like to contact Chris, catch up with old friends or tell us about your time at MC please do so through our website.
We received a fascinating and poignant email from Graham Pickup relating to Captain Thomas Noel Dawkins
(OM) who was killed in action in 1940. Graham Pickup's father was Sgt John Pickup who was Captain Dawkins' driver in the Royal Artillery and recounts the fierce fighting near St Valery en Caux during the British Army's retreat to Dunkirk.
Thomas Dawkins, along with John Pickup and another NCO, ran into a Wehrmacht machine gun unit and tank, whilst surveying gun positions near F-camp. Captain Dawkins was severely wounded in the arm. The two NCOs gave him first aid and delivered him to the dressing station at St Valery. John Pickup never knew what happened to Thomas (who, sadly, died of his wounds) and always wanted to know if he had survived.
The 51st Highland Division (which included the 23 Field Regiment, RA) was sacrificed as a rearguard to save the rest of the retreating BEF and on the 12 June,1940, the Division was ordered to surrender, including John Pickup who 'went into the bag' (captured) for the duration of the Second World War. Graham Pickup found Thomas Dawkins' details through the 'Lost Boys' section of our website.Peter Millson
contacted us last week. He was a pupil from 1932-1937, under the headship of John Blakeney. He was extremely interested in our website which brought back so many happy memories for him. He now lives in South Africa and "wishes everyone (pupils, past and present) all very well."
Glad to hear from Bev Woollard
who was delighted to see two photos of his cricket and football teams in 1944/5 or thereabouts, on our 'Old Mertonians' section of the school website (under 'News, information and events'). He wondered if anyone recognised any of the other faces? Bev lives in Dorking, Surrey, but recently had lunch with old classmates John Evans and Mike Hollingsworth who both still live in Sidcup. Bev is retired but keeps busy with his interests of photography and dinghy sailing. Why not try using the OM page to catch up with old friends?
Anyone remember George Balfour-Marshall
who was a pupil here in the early 1950's? He emailed the school this week. He was originally from Cardiff but his family moved to Sidcup in 1951.
He sent us a lovely picture from 1953, with him wearing his M.C. uniform, especially for his brother's christening!
After attending Merton Court, George went on to Epsom College and subsequently became a Chartered Surveyor.
He joined BP in 1970, then Fina, which ultimately became part of Total Oil. He retired in 2004, has one son, lives in Harpenden and would love to hear from any past OMs who were school friends of his?Any news to add? Just fill in the "Contact Us" panel on the website - it would be great to hear from you!
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